You've been hurt a time or two? Yeah, so what's new? Everyone has been there before, life was never promised to be hurt, stress, or drama free. All you can do is roll with the punches, stand tall, and never let anyone who's lacking change you.
Don't let their lack of affection change you into being an unaffectionate person. Don't let their inability to love change you into an unloving person. You were designed to be an individual, unique, special, and able to adapt.
Don't confuse someone who loves you with someone who is using you. Your heart may be seeking something genuine while they are only seeking someone they perceive to be weak, ask God for discernment. You need to know for sure what their intentions are in your life. Are they in your life to help or hinder you?
If you have more bad days and more bad feelings than good, that would be a definite indicator that person has no purpose in your life. If loving them "hurts" end things immediately. Love doesn't hurt, people do!
There's no need to stay in any situation that has the ability to turn you from being a kind and loving person to a bitter hate filled person!
If you have more good days and good feelings than bad then you may have someone worth holding on to.
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