Before you finally throw in the towel and give up on the person that you are feeling, ask yourself....How much can you take? Can you take the heartbreak that the person that you care about the most dishes out? Can you put up with all of the distractions in their life? Can you put up with all of the disappointments? Before you give up, ask yourself....is he or she worth it? If you can weigh all of the good against the bad then maybe you'll be able to come up with a viable answer that will allow you to easily move on or work out some of the issues that you are currently experiencing.
If you can't see yourself without that person then the answer should be very clear to you. If on the other hand you can very easily see yourself without that person then you have some tough decisions to make. Don't rush into ending it because if you give up on your relationship too quickly then you'll be left with resentment and regret. At the same time you don't want to linger in a relationship that doesn't have a purpose.
Sometimes the hardest thing is letting go, the entire breakup process can seem like you're grieving or you've experienced a loss. Getting out of bed can definitely be a challenge, but don't let one thing keep you from enjoying other aspects of YOUR life! :)
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